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Love and The Gift of Constructive Feedback
This is genuine care!
While I love them deeply, I cannot claim to love everything about who they are. My commitment is not to casually accept but to nurture growth. I must be honest in my care. Please understand that, at times, critique arises not from judgment but from belief in your potential.
Feedback is a gift, albeit one that stings. We reflexively bristle when flaws are exposed. But lowering defenses and listening openly mined hidden gold within criticism. Perfection should not be demanded, but constructive feedback should be generously received.
Genuine care means each of us kindly highlighting areas for development and growth in each other. Rather than assigning blame or criticism, let’s encourage one another’s progress with compassion.
Please help me understand the fears, pains, and beliefs that sustain the cycles you want to break. Please share with me the inner blocks so I may help you dismantle them with wisdom gained through walking my path of self-inquiry.
Complacency poses a far greater threat to our growth than transparency. I want to see you flourish into the fullest expression of your gifts. Offer me the same grace. We refine ourselves sharpest through friction as long as it stems from mutual care.
Let me gently reflect on when you fall into limiting behaviours or thought patterns that diminish your light. My intention is never to shame but to reveal blind spots holding you back lovingly.
Let us pledge to exchange feedback with tenderness, not severity. To wrestle with the discomfort that more authentic union and understanding may emerge. If a cocoon holds you back, I cannot blindly applaud the status quo. Let me help you spread your wings!
When you notice areas where I am stuck or struggling, offer me the gift of bringing awareness to my limiting patterns. Encourage me to heal inner wounds I have yet to recognize. Call me in, not out.